If you want to get married, you must have a foundation for marriage. If you have these three elements between you, it will be easy for you to have a direction. But if you don't have this kind of thing between you, it will be difficult for your relationship to have direction. Marriage is an indispensable and important factor, take a look!
First, do you have a home? Do you have any resistance to home?
Before getting married, you must be prepared. The concept of home is incomplete if you are not prepared. Then your conflict is a sign that you don't love each other. This kind of conflict will only make you less and less understanding and more and more clinging to each other. It will make you more and more afraid of marriage.
Second, whether your ideas are consistent and whether there is consensus
Your recognition of your ideas will make you miserable in your marriage. It will put your relationship on the same starting line and no one will fall behind. This kind of conceptual recognition is also the marriage that you need to stick to the most. If you don't have this between you, it will be difficult for you to find purpose in each other.
Third, for the sake of love, do you want to be independent?
Independence will also be the most indispensable thing in your relationship. If you stick together all day long, your relationship will become more and more problematic. If you can't be relaxed about each other's feelings, then your life is bound to have more disasters. This kind of relaxation will keep you from getting tired of each other and give your relationship more space.
For the indispensable and important factors in marriage, if these three points exist between you, then these three points will become the direction of your relationship. Men and women who possess these three points will fall more and more in love with each other. Would you do this for each other?