If you have a good chat with a girl and have plans to develop the relationship, then you can consider asking the girl out to play and test whether the two people are really suitable for each other in face-to-face contact. When you ask a girl out for the first time, of course the boy should make good arrangements. Only when the girl has experienced it will she be willing to continue to have contact with you. Let me share with you how to arrange your first date with a girl?
1. The date location should be relaxing
People will only relax in a place they are familiar with, so try to choose a date location that is familiar to you, so that you can order the food. The steps will be smoother and less likely to make jokes. If the girl chooses a date place that you are not familiar with, then you can find out about it online in advance and make a guide, etc., so that you will not be nervous after arriving at the date place and leave the girl with the impression that she has never seen the world.
2. Dating must be malleable
Of course it is impossible for you to ask a girl out for the first time. It's just that two people have a meal together and then go back to their respective homes, so pay attention to the extensibility of the date. For example, there is a shopping mall where you meet a girl for dinner. After you and the girl have dinner, you can go to the movies together, or go shopping with the girl in the mall, or find a coffee shop to sit with the girl... just in case. Your mother was quite happy chatting, and we could make an appointment to continue shopping together after dinner. The scalability of dates gives you multiple choices. If a girl doesn't like a certain date arrangement of yours, you can adapt accordingly and choose the date method she likes.
3. Dating chat topics
No matter where you are dating a girl, no matter where you are dating a girl, No matter what the project is, chatting with girls is inevitable, so it is very important to find chat topics. Many boys chat well with girls online, but they don’t know what to say during a date with a girl. Maybe they are too nervous, or maybe they are worried that they will say the wrong thing, so the chat interaction is not as good as before on WeChat. In this case, you might as well discuss the matter and discuss what you are doing now or what you have done with girls in the past. If you really don’t know what to say, then choose a date with less talking, such as watching a movie.
4. Dating Etiquette
When you ask a girl out for the first time, you need to pay attention to a lot of dating etiquette. This is You can't go wrong. The first point is to arrive as early as possible for the appointment and never be late, no matter what the reason is. The second thing is to try to use your mobile phone as little as possible on a date, or even not at all, otherwise you will give the girl the feeling that you are not satisfied with her. The third is to pay attention to details during the date. Don’t be too loud when eating, don’t gobble it up, be nice to others (such as waiters, taxi drivers), and remember to sayThanks, open the door for the girls. Details make you more tasteful and attractive, and make your date more comfortable.
No matter how you arrange your first date with a girl, the most important thing is to give her a comfortable feeling, pay attention to her emotional changes, and change your date plan at any time so that she feels comfortable dating you. If you are happy, why would she reject you?
