When dating a girl, holding hands is the most basic operation to warm up the relationship. Girls will definitely not tell you directly when you can hold hands during a date. Many boys can’t find a suitable reason to hold hands, so on a date After many dates, I never even did the small thing of holding hands, which gradually made the relationship become distant. So what are the hand-holding techniques when you want to hold a girl’s hand on a date?
1. Give her a hand in advance Girls’ psychological expectations
If you hold hands too abruptly during a date, it is likely to offend the girl. Therefore, if you want to hold her hand smoothly, you need to build her up in advance during the chat before the date. A psychological expectation, such as:
Male: What if I lose my memory one day and forget about you
Female: Just forget it
Male : I heard experts say that the best way to remember someone is to hold her hand
Female: Nonsense
Male: Really, I held your hand when we met, but Don't hit me
To put it simply, you need to send a signal to the girl that you want to hold hands with her during the date, so that the hand-holding you do during the date will not make the girl feel abrupt. .
2. Let holding hands be rationalized
If a girl agrees to go on a date with you, it at least shows that she is interested in holding hands. You don't resent it, and you even have a good impression of it, so most of them won't resent holding hands unless your approach seems too deliberate.
Therefore, we still need to rationalize the matter of holding hands and give her a reason to accept it, such as:
"There are many people today, be careful" and take advantage of the situation to hold her hand. hand.
"Hurry up, there are a lot of cars here." He took the initiative to hold her hand.
Holding hands with too much purpose is very offensive to girls, but holding hands in a natural and rational way will make girls think that you are a warm man who is considerate and caring.
3. Progression of physical contact
Of course, holding hands is only the most basic physical contact in dating. If you want your relationship to take a step forward, you need to increase physical contact step by step.
Under normal circumstances, our physical contact in dating follows this process:
(1) Start by touching the shoulders and head.
Girls are The sensitivity of physical contact is different. If you go beyond a girl's boundaries from the beginning, she will be wary. So the best way is to pretend to touch the girl's arm casually to test the girl's simple body movements like yours. Sensitive to touch.
Chatting with girlsIf you talk about some happy topics and make a girl laugh from time to time, you can touch her head casually and praise her by the way: "Why is she so cute?" I don't think girls will refuse.
(2) Hold hands with a girl
If you touch a girl’s shoulder by accident and do not reject her when touching her head, then you can hold hands with a girl. You must do so in a crowded place. Or hold the other person's hand when crossing the road and say why you are here: "We are in such a hurry today, don't get lost." This gives the hand a sense of security. It should be noted that when a girl is a little dissatisfied with your hand holding, she must remember to let go of her hand.
If a girl asks you why you hold her hand, you can say "Your hand is too warm and I can't bear to let it go."
(3) Let girls rely on themselves
When going out on a date with girls, it is difficult to find opportunities If you want to hug her, then we can start by leaning on the shoulder or hugging her. For example, if you are tired of shopping or watching movies, then try to get close to her first and let the girl rest her head on your shoulder, and then slowly lower your body and let her Girls stay comfortable, small gestures like this will be considerate in the eyes of girls.
(4) Hug the girl and give her a kiss on the forehead
At the end of the date, stare deeply into her eyes and express a feeling of reluctance, which is something girls also feel. The time of confusion. Or as long as the girl doesn't come upstairs immediately, you hug her slowly.
If you don’t dare to look directly into the girl’s eyes, you can also say to the girl: “I’m really happy today, how about you?”, and then say to the girl: “Give me a hug, I’ll sleep better tonight. "It smells so good"
When waiting for the hug to end, you can pause for a moment, say to the girl "I forgot something" and then give her a gentle kiss on the forehead or kiss the girl at the end of the hug. forehead.
