Chatting has always been a flaw for many boys. As soon as they chat with a girl they like, their minds go blank and they don’t know what topics to use to chat with them. In fact, as long as you know how to chat with girls, this problem will be easily solved. Below, the editor will share with you some chatting skills with girls, so that you can become a chatting master.
1. There is no need to please too much
Many boys think that they need to please when chasing girls, so I habitually lower my posture when chatting with girls. However, doing so will only push girls further and further away. For example:
You know, the more you please when chatting with a girl you like, the less she will care about you. Make her feel like you're not good enough for her.
The more humble and humble you are, the more you can demonstrate your high value. For example:
2. Understand female thinking
When chatting with girls, why can’t I say a few words? It’s a cold start? Why did you prepare a lot of topics, but in the end you couldn’t continue the conversation?
Actually, it’s because you don’t have enough experience and don’t understand women’s thinking.
If you want to catch up with the girl you like, how can you do it if you don’t understand her?
Besides, boys and girls think differently, so when chatting with girls, , we often make girls feel bored.
For example:
Girls: I am eating
Boys: What are you eating?
This kind of thinking is how typical boys solve problems. Your thinking is generally boring and cannot highlight your uniqueness. It is naturally difficult for girls to be impressed by you.
Girls’ thinking is more divergent. They care more about the process and the feeling of chatting than the results.
Even if you chat for a whole day without any substantive content, the chatting process is very happy. In her heart, you are a very interesting man.
3. Learn to think divergently
When chatting with girls, many boys, in order to continue The topic evolved into "checking household registration".
Although I also know that this will arouse the disgust of girls, I just can't find a solution.
In fact, when chatting with girls, finding a topic is secondary. The most important thing is how to continue the conversation. You can completely find suitable keywords based on the girl's reply, and spread your thoughts to continue the topic.
For example:
If it’s 12 o’clock at noon and you ask her what she is doing, and she says she is still in bed and just woke up, how will you reply?
According to the girl’s “just woke up” "Wake up", you can spread your thoughts and think about it.
What the editor is thinking of here is "sloth bear", so you can reply to the girl and say: I seem to know a secret, tell me, are you a sloth bear?
< p style="text-align: center;">4. Learn to be humorous
When you become more familiar with a girl, the girl may deliberately say something that makes it difficult for you to reply. topic. When faced with a girl's test, many friends will be eager to distance themselves in order to show their loyalty.
For example:
Girls: Do you always flirt with girls like this?
Most boys: No
Although There is nothing wrong with this explanation per se, but our goal is to pursue the other party, not not to make mistakes.
Such an honest and boring chat will not give girls any emotional ups and downs, and naturally it will not make girls feel for you.
In fact, we don’t need to care too much about the content. You can use rhetorical questions to throw the problem back to girls: Are you attracted by me?
In fact, getting along with girls , whether it is chatting or dating, it is not difficult. If you master the correct skills, you can gradually become a chatting master.
