To have a chance of chasing a girl, you must have a girl to chase you. However, many single men don’t have many girls around them, and they still fantasize about being single all day long. This is really a bit of a daydream. Therefore, expanding one's social circle is the first step, and the fastest way to accomplish this goal is to strike up a conversation!
However, striking up a conversation is still very difficult for many people. They dare not strike up a conversation and do not want to strike up a conversation. If you know how to strike up a conversation, you can take a look at some of the following basic ways to strike up a conversation.
1. The basics of striking up a conversation: image attractiveness
When striking up a conversation with a girl, image is of course the first. One level. If you look unattractive, girls will turn away.
When you take the initiative to approach a girl and express to her that you want to get to know her, the girl will often decide whether to continue chatting with you through her initial impression of you, and your appearance takes up her initial impression. 70% of the impression.
After all, if a handsome man and a frustrated man are in front of you, you will definitely choose the former.
2. Use self-confidence and charm to gain favor
The essential problem that many veterans fail to strike up a conversation with is that they are not confident enough and are afraid to strike up a conversation with strange girls.
When I see a girl I am interested in, I have the urge to strike up a conversation, but I lose before I fight:
"She is so beautiful, she must have a boyfriend, I have no chance."
"She is so good-looking, she will definitely not fall in love with me, and we will never know each other."
"If she rejects me, I will be very embarrassed." The above concerns It seems reasonable, but in fact it is just an excuse for your own fear.
No matter what kind of thoughts you have, if you don’t take action, in the end the girl leaves, and you can only beat your chest with regret.
3. Borrowing props to strike up a conversation
Borrowing props to strike up a conversation with girls is also a good way.
Many girls like to take beautiful photos, so a camera is a good prop. You must practice your photography skills regularly and find the right angle for girls to take photos, so that you can easily gain the trust of girls in you.
For example, when you meet a girl you like, walk forward generously and say: Hello, can you take a photo for me here?
4. Create common topics
Picking up a conversation is nothing more than chatting. If you want to strike up a conversation successfully, you must know how to chat with girls. The key is to find out the girls' points of interest.
For example, if a girl is walking her pet on the roadside, it is very good. This is an opportunity to strike up a conversation and you can take the initiative to talk.
First, she came forward to pet her little animal with a doting look on her face, and then said: "I am so loved by yourThe puppy is attracted. It looks so cute. What is its name? (Remember to ask questions and let the girls interact with you)
