Breaking up is very common in relationships. But some girls will still miss their ex long after they break up, and it may even have an impact on their next relationship. How should the boy respond at this time?
Comfort her emotions
First of all, when a girl expresses her feelings about not forgetting her ex, the boy should respond with understanding and sympathy. For girls, this is a kind of emotional catharsis and venting, which requires the comfort and support of their lover.
Encourage her to start over
When replying to a girl, a boy can encourage her to try to start over. This does not mean that you should make a boyfriend lightly, but that you should meet more new people, try more new things, and let yourself be filled with more beautiful things.
Don’t compare
When girls miss their ex, boys tend to compare their ex with themselves. This kind of comparison will have some impact on girls' next relationship, and may even create an unhealthy competitive mentality. Therefore, when boys reply, they should try to avoid comparing themselves with their exes, and instead let girls focus on the present and the next possible relationship.
Give time and space
What girls need is time and space to forget their ex. A guy can give her a gift when she wants to leave, or give her a relaxing and meditative space to think about her emotions. During this period, the boy can care about her appropriately, but don't force her to make a decision too much.
Summary
When a girl cannot forget her ex, the boy should respond with understanding and sympathy, and at the same time encourage her to try to start over, but do not compare with her ex. In this process, boys should give girls time and space and allow her to think and process their emotions.
