It’s very embarrassing if you add a girl on Chinese Valentine’s Day, but you don’t know how to chat. The editor below will teach you how to chat with a girl you add on Chinese Valentine’s Day.
1. Establish interaction through the circle of friends
The girl who has just been added to Qixi Festival has not yet become acquainted with each other. In a familiar situation, it is the best choice to build a sense of familiarity between the two parties through interaction in the circle of friends.
On the one hand, you can learn more about each other by observing each other’s circle of friends. On the other hand, interacting in the circle of friends is relatively simple.
2. Use emoticons
In addition to establishing interaction, another important thing is to prepare more Fun emoticons. When chatting on WeChat, many emoticon packs can basically replace text. Using emoticon packs can alleviate the embarrassment of having no topic when chatting on WeChat. On the other hand, emoticon packs are quite funny and can bring out the girl you just added. Have fun and bring the distance between you closer.
Of course, we must also be careful not to post emoticons too often, which will change the flavor of chatting if it turns into a fight for pictures. We need to talk about love.
3. Learn to expand the topic
Even if you start chatting, there may be no topic. In this case, you need to learn to expand the topic.
The so-called expanding the topic is to grasp the key points in the girl’s message and then extend it.
This successfully jumped out of the meaningless topic and naturally transitioned the topic to food and desserts.
The girl reveals to you that she loves desserts. If you find out which cake is delicious and invite her to have dessert, you can take this opportunity to invite her.
4. Maintain an attitude and suppress appropriately
Almost every high-quality girl will test him when she meets a new man to determine whether the boy is worth dating and getting deeper into. develop. This is what we often call "waste testing".
For example:
This seems to be just a casual comment from a girl, but in fact this is her waste test questions.
If you say "I can't help it" or "It's okay", these are not correct answers. This will let girls see your lack of confidence and put you in a low-value position.
If you say, "There are many boys shorter than me," she will think that you are a boy who wants to save face.Naturally, I don’t have high expectations for you.
In addition, there are many chat techniques such as push and pull, cold reading, psychological suggestion, role playing, situational display, vague invitations, etc. If you want to understand, then you should take a closer look at the following content .
Generally, when faced with girls’ failed tests, we have two methods:
The first one: humorous response + complementary advantages
The second type: joking reply + serious suppression
Facing girls If you can catch the rubbish test and answer it perfectly, you will leave her with an impression of "awesome and my type", which will make her interested in you and fall in love with you.
But if you can’t pick it up and can’t answer it skillfully, then in her eyes, you are just a “lost guy” who can’t hold her, and she will quickly lose interest in you and keep talking to you again. I don’t want to get to know you too deeply.
