It is impossible for a husband and wife not to get angry and have conflicts. After all, everyone has their own temper and opinions, and there will always be times when they conflict with each other. So if you make your wife angry, how can you calm her down? In fact, it may look scary when your wife is angry, but in fact, as long as the man lowers his head, the matter will be over. If both sides are in a stalemate there, the result may be a cold war, quarrels, etc., which is unnecessary. Let’s talk about how to comfort your wife when she is angry.
1. Say some considerate words
In fact, my wife has done a lot for the family, and she is indeed very tired sometimes. It is inappropriate to vent her anger on her at this time. You can say considerate words to your wife when she is angry, and be considerate of what she has done for the family and for you, so that she feels that her efforts are valuable and she will feel much better. Of course, your wife may not forgive you or stop being angry with you because of this, but she will be less resistant to you in her heart. This is only the first step.
2. Analyze the problem
Next, you can gently touch her head and ask her how Why is she angry? If she doesn’t answer you, you can try to hold her and bury her in your arms, continue to be gentle, and figure out the reason for the anger, such as "What's wrong, baby, did I make you angry? Or are you hurt?" I'm wronged..." After figuring out the reason, he quickly solves the problem. If he can't solve it, he comforts him. My wife also needs to be coaxed. She likes gentleness the most.
3. Admit your mistakes
If it is your problem that makes your wife angry, then admit your mistakes first no matter what. This is a good attitude. To take a step back, even if your wife is wrong and she is angry, it is not a matter of worrying about who is right or wrong at this time, coax her first and then talk about it. After all, she is still angry. If you argue with him at this time, it will only add fuel to the fire, and it will not end well when the time comes. Even if you want to reason with her, you should wait until her emotions have passed.
4. Physical contact
Some body language is also necessary, so that you can make your wife feel That you love her. Kiss her, hug her, comfort her, kiss her, fill her with happiness and leave her no time to be sad. Don’t let her be alone, don’t let her think wildly, let her feel your love and tolerance! There is some truth in fighting at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed.
5. Be careful with your wife
When your wife is angry, you must be more careful to take care of her. You must be good at discovering some emotional details, such as when eating. Duoduo picks up food for his wife, and if he finds that she is missing something, or if he likes something, he quietly buys it for her as a surprise.
6. Give in to others
When people are angry, they are still very concerned about the things they like. If your wife likes to buy, buy, buy, give her your card and take her to buy, buy, buy. If your wife likes to eat XXX’s delicacies, take her to have a big meal and turn grief and anger into strength; your wife likes district When traveling, just make a travel plan and ask him if he is interested in going with you... In fact, this can be regarded as a way to divert attention, and the effect is not bad.
In life, try to make your wife angry as little as possible. If it is unavoidable, just coax her more and the matter will be over.
