How to keep love fresh
1. Set some rules for each other at the beginning of a relationship:
1. Watch movies together at least twice a month (the atmosphere of the cinema can stimulate the growth of feelings)
2. At least one Quiet afternoon tea (easy to understand each other and relieve knots.)
3. Go to the amusement park at least once a year (open your heart and laugh loudly)
4. Every Go shopping at least once a month, pick out gifts for each other, and eat at roadside stalls.
5. A trip once a year does not have to be far away, but it should stay for a day or two.
6. When celebrating holidays or birthdays, there must be a sense of ceremony.
7. A quarrel cannot be resolved overnight. Whoever stands up first is the first to show affection.
Two. Learn a new skill:
1. The most important thing to keep love fresh is to keep people fresh. New things need to be input constantly so that you won’t get bored with each other. If you are the same from the beginning to the end of the relationship , then he will tell you on the day we break up, I am tired.
2. Learning a new skill can also allow you to have your own circle. Don’t let love fill your life. Life should be divided evenly, and if the moon is full, you will lose money. If love is too full, it will overflow, gradually flow, and lose its freshness.
3. Let him feel that you are always changing, endlessly alive, always making new discoveries, and worth exploring for a lifetime.
4. Make yourself better and love smarter.
Three. Take a set of photos for every love anniversary
There is no need for expensive artistic photos, there are various forms, the most beautiful ID photos, travel photos, studio photos, three or five photos are enough. Accumulate some for your love Memories are like laying a foundation. The richer the memories, the stronger the foundation of love.
Four. There are also some real things we do together
For example, making pottery cups together, putting together puzzles and installing photo frames, skydiving together, running marathons together to win medals, etc.
Five. Raise a pet together and take care of its life every day, just like taking care of a child.
Keeping a pet when you are in love can cultivate a man's sense of responsibility and reflect his soft side. People who have raised pets will definitely take care of children after marriage, and they will know that it is not easy for you. The cost of raising pets is relatively high, which can stimulate men to work hard and make money. When you have a pet, a man will have a sense of family mission. Such men often have a higher probability of success than ordinary people.
6. Open a separate bank card and deposit a sum of money in it every month as funds for buying a house and getting married. The money may be a drop in the bucket, but it's a token of love that keeps you both working toward a goal. When you put money on that card each month, you'll have new topics and insights that will enhance your relationship. I'm also looking forward to next month, planning something new.
How long is the sensitive period of love?
When boys chase girls, some may chase for a year or two, and some may catch up with a girl in a week, or even more violently. They catch up with a girl about three days later. But if you want to get along with a girl for a long time and enter the wedding hall together, you need to pay attention to your own dangerous period of love. The dangerous period of love is roughly between the third and fourth months of your relationship. At this time, the dangerous period of your love has arrived. Remember not to say you don't care, because this time is related to the life and death of your entire relationship. Maybe when you first fell in love, you just wanted to feel loved. In the past two months, every move you make has been exposed to her without any cover-up. You always feel that there is something that keeps her by your side. Therefore, many couples died in the dangerous period, and the former Xiaoyue Lao was no exception.
How to spend the sensitive period of love
Give each other enough space
Some girls lack a sense of security, so I always think wildly, thinking that if If my boyfriend doesn't reply to my messages in time, then he may be dating other girls or flirting with other girls. He is always suspicious and wants to check my boyfriend's phone.
Mutual trust
If you want to go further in a relationship, trust is actually the most basic thing. Because if you lose trust in your partner, it is like a house without a foundation. The relationship cannot be strong, which means that the two of you cannot go far. Therefore, if you want to maintain the relationship between two people, you must remember to have enough trust in your significant other.
Know how to tolerate each other
In a relationship, it is inevitable that there will be many small quarrels and frictions, so this requires us to know how to tolerate our significant other. Because if you always keep quarreling with your partner, over time both of you will feel tired, and you will feel that this relationship is only a burden on you. Therefore, you must learn to tolerate your significant other, because only in this way can you go further.