If you and the big tigress in your home, oh, it’s the little white rabbit, have a huge quarrel, and they will become incompatible with each other for a while. So how should we reconcile quickly after the incident has passed quickly? This is one of the problems that almost all boys encounter. So how do you reconcile with your girlfriend after you had a fight? How to make her quickly put her past grievances aside, ignore all the disrespect you just showed her, and get you back to where you were before the quarrel.
1. Take the initiative to admit their mistakes after each other
In the anger of the quarrel, both parties are actually irrational. Do not say anything irrational at this time, but give each other time first. Calm down, and then take the initiative as a man to coax your woman. After all, there must be something wrong with both people in the quarrel. At this time, there is no shame in apologizing in front of your girlfriend and admitting your mistake. This will prevent you from having a cold war after the quarrel. The longer the cold war lasts, the more it will hurt your feelings. Therefore, after an argument with your girlfriend, it is more direct and effective for you to take the initiative and sincerely apologize to her. Taking the initiative to admit your mistakes can also reflect your courage to admit your mistakes.
2. Tell your girlfriend that you miss her so much
Maybe the worsening of your quarrel seems to be very girlish. Your friend is angry, but after the quarrel you will still regret that you did not control your feelings and hurt your girlfriend. At this time, you might as well speak out what is in your heart and tell your girlfriend that you regret it and that you miss her very much now. In fact, she may also miss you. Everyone can make peace if they each take a step back.
3. It is better to make a phone call than send a message
Many boys like to send messages to ask for forgiveness after quarreling with their girlfriends, but in fact, there are many restrictions on sending messages to express feelings. The same sentence If the words lack the echo of the tone, the meaning and effect will be greatly reduced. Therefore, if you want to apologize to your girlfriend and ask for peace, it is better to send a message than to make a phone call directly. This communication is the most effective and direct, and can clearly express your mood at the moment.
4. Don’t argue, make up first
In fact, there is no right or wrong in the emotional world, even if you argue If you win, your girlfriend will be unhappy, but you will be the one who suffers in the end. What's more, it is actually very difficult for couples to distinguish who is right and who is wrong, and to argue about the reasons why things happened. So, don’t argue about who loses and who wins. If you win the argument and if you lose, it’s still the two of you who will be sad. Reconcile first, and then analyze objectively after each other calms down.
5. Have a delicious meal with your girlfriend
Food is not only a pleasure for the taste buds, but also affects people's mood. Therefore, sometimes it is better to release kindness, put aside the quarrel, go out for a walk together, and enjoy a delicious meal. Maybe the tense relationship between the two can be eased. If your girlfriend is a foodie, she may have forgotten about the quarrel until nothing happened.
6. Say I love you
No matter how you quarrel with your girlfriend, as long as you still love her, don’t do it for a moment Don't get angry with her, otherwise you may actually lose her in the end. So at this time, let go of your prejudices and take the initiative to say to her, "I love you. Let's stop arguing, okay?" One sentence of "I love you" is better than countless words. This will definitely heal each other's emotions and reconcile as before.
How to reconcile with your girlfriend after you quarreled? It’s so simple. Sometimes, don’t think these things are too ordinary. If you do ordinary things a few times and lick your face a few times, maybe the other person will I can put away my serious face and start to smile at you, and you can also enjoy the wonderful fun in the world at night, why not?
