When chasing girls, chatting alone is definitely not enough. No matter how good the online chat is, you still have to make a date in the end to make the relationship possible. So how long does it usually take to chat with a girl before making a date to meet?
1. Chat to establish an initial sense of trust
The most important thing is to chat with a strange girl on WeChat if you want to meet her. What matters is whether you can eliminate her doubts about you. Because after adding the girl’s WeChat account at the beginning, both parties still don’t know each other very well. We need to chat with the girl more to increase our familiarity.
Of course, the topic of conversation is basically about her topic, and about the topic around you.
The initial chat is actually about exchanging information and slowly getting to know each other. The girl will also make judgments on the information you have given, and judge whether you are a trustworthy person or what kind of person you are. people.
In addition, girls will also observe your personality. How to observe it?
For example, when I first added a boy to WeChat (I am a girl), I would go there for the first time. Look at the boy's circle of friends and understand the characteristics of the boy through the circle of friends. This is the first step to understand. In this process: a group of good friends will make girls feel that you are a responsible, caring, kind, etc. person. When she's familiar and safe enough, she'll let her guard down a little and chat with you.
Of course, as the girl becomes familiar with you, don’t forget to pay attention to the girl’s emotions and status.
When a girl has bad emotions, you can comfort her appropriately. For example, the girl is busy at work. Don't disturb her too much. This may affect her work efficiency. You can continue the chat to the next stage.
2. Initial attraction of girls
Even if you can make her trust you when chatting with a strange girl on WeChat , and you can't let the girl decide to meet you. Because you may not attract her. When girls want to get to know you better through previous contact, you have to strike while the iron is hot. Men and women rely on mutual attraction. When you must have characteristics that girls like very much, such girls will increase your attention, attract more points, and the higher the attention.
For example, if you haven’t updated your circle of friends for a while, or you haven’t chatted with her today, she will take the initiative to ask you about your recent situation. This is what attracts her to you.
When you chat, you can share your life with girls. Or expressed in a joking way. This is the easiest way for girls to accept. The girl does not feel that you do not need her much, thus increasing her love for you.
3. Make an invitation
When twoAfter the chat reaches a certain level and the girl has some trust in you and is interested in you, this is the best time to make an invitation. However, you shouldn’t be too direct when inviting a girl. You can first put forward a vague invitation to test the girl’s attitude.
For example: "I saw this new movie on Douban today with very good reviews and a very high score. How about we watch it together when we are free?" If there is no exact time agreement when making the invitation, you can Give girls a psychological buffer so that they can choose freely so that they will not feel disgusted. Then see if the girl wants to go. If the girl agrees, let her decide the time and place of the date.
