Physical contact is the fastest way to warm up a relationship, but when dating, most boys want to have closer contact with the girl they like, but at the same time, they will make the girl feel inappropriate and are afraid of scaring the girl and arousing her anger. Disgusted. I don’t know how to contact girls reasonably, so today I will share with my friends some physical contact routines to enhance feelings.
1. Step by step
Physical contact with girls must be done step by step.
Many friends, when dating girls, are impatient and think that the time is coming, so they start to boldly touch the girl, which makes the girl feel disgusted.
Even if you have been chatting on social media for a long time, or even to the point of ambiguity, you should not grab a girl’s hand when you meet her for the first time.
A girl has a strong sense of self-protection, especially when she is dating you for the purpose of marriage.
Even if she is already excited about you, she may not accept your rash holding hands.
So in fact, no matter how much a girl likes you, your intimate contact starts with the most basic contact.
In principle, only when a girl doesn't hate you touching her head, can you try to touch her hand, then hold hands, hug, etc. You need to warm your feelings step by step.
Once a girl refuses, you can no longer pester her.
Don’t be afraid of losing opportunities. Rejecting your intimacy upgrades and promotions is not permanent. Her no just means not yet.
2. Natural
When making physical contact with a girl, it must be unintentional and inappropriate. It is carried out on the premise of exposing one's own needs.
The aim is to minimize the rejection of girls.
When a girl likes a boy, her heart is very eager for the boy to touch her, but she does not take the initiative out of reserve.
You need to find some excuse to get close to her body intentionally.
In the relationship between men and women, girls are born to play a protected role.
So under this premise, we can use some polite actions to contact her, which will not only make it easier to be accepted by girls, but also show our gentlemanly demeanor.
Especially meeting someone for the first time is the best way to build a good impression.
For example, when a girl gets off the bus, you can hold her hand;
When watching a movie with a girl, you can pull her down to make sure she doesn't fall in love with you Separate;
Or gently hold her shoulders when holding an umbrella to prevent her from getting wet...
These are gentlemen's physical contact.
You have to be very natural throughout the whole process and make the girl feel that you have no other intentions.
This will not make the girl feel abrupt, but will also make her think that you are a good man who is considerate and takes care of girls, and will have a good impression of you.
3. Be bold
Some friends, especially those who have no love experience, are in contact with girls. When I am young, I like to ask girls for their opinions.
For example: Can I kiss you? Can I hug you?
Doing so is equivalent to giving girls the right to choose and will make themselves passive. All you have to do is be confident and bold, and you don’t need to ask the other person when making physical contact.
If you are really afraid that rash contact will make the girl hate you, you can try the following methods to test the girl's inner thoughts.
How does she react when you get close?
When you are dating, deliberately getting close to you is an obvious way to express that I like you very much.
A girl who really likes you may refuse your hug because of her inner conservativeness and reserve.
But for your closeness, because essentially nothing happens, she basically won’t avoid it.
Affected by traditional thinking, we will feel that men and women do not accept relatives. Before confirming the relationship, they will generally keep a certain distance and not get too close.
If a girl doesn’t like you and has no feelings for you, she will subconsciously avoid you and keep a certain distance from you.
Her reaction when you touch her.
Take holding hands as an example. If a girl stops and hesitates while holding your hand, she will start trying to break away from you.
This is enough to show that the girl is reserved. She feels that if you hold her hand too early, she will appear unreserved and struggle.
Then at this time, you can hold the girl's hand firmly, and find a reason to convince her to let you hold her, or let go first and then look for other opportunities.
As long as the girl doesn’t subconsciously abandon you directly, you don’t need to take a retreat method to enhance her sense of security.
Hold a girl’s hand. If she immediately shakes you off, it means she is not ready to hold hands with you, or she doesn’t want to hold hands with you at all.
In this case, you need to take a step back and rebuild the attraction.
Assuming that physical contact ranges from light to heavy: physical proximity, touching head, holding hands, hugging, and kissing.
If you are rejected by a girl while holding hands, you need to step back to the next level, that is, the step closer to you.
On the one hand, give the girl enough sense of security and tell her that you have no other ideas.
On the other hand, it makes her lose her heartBecause she longs for you to touch her head and is more willing to accept your holding her hand.
In order to protect themselves, girls tend to be more defensive.
If you want to bring two people closer through physical contact, it seems simple, but it is actually very difficult to do. If you're not careful, she'll think you're being a hooligan and run away from you cleanly.
If you want her to be your girlfriend, you can’t just chat on social software for the rest of your life. Dating is a necessary step to bring two people closer together.
