Falling in love does not mean that everything will be fine once the relationship is established, especially online dating. You may have established a relationship online, but if there are details that are not handled well during the first date offline, it can easily cause the relationship to regress. So what should you do on the first date after confirming the relationship?
1. Arrangement of location
Now that the relationship has been established, it proves that you still have certain skills in chatting, so you should use your strengths to make girls feel that you can not only chat online, but also have a great time chatting in real life.
The places that are more suitable for chatting include:
For example, coffee shops, restaurants with a quieter environment, or Japanese restaurants with separate private rooms, some suitable for the two of you. A place to get along.
Relatively speaking, these locations will allow you to focus more on the date, and the communication between you will be clearer. You will not be unable to communicate well with each other because of the noisy environment. Focus more on getting along with each other.
Of course, there are also different types of girls.
For example, if you are both college students, you can choose a fun and interesting place like an amusement park, because at this time, since girls are going out on a date, the most important thing is to have fun with boys.
On the contrary, if you are going to get married, and you are good at chatting, and you are a boy who has relatively social experience and can talk, you can choose a Japanese private room that you like, which is more suitable for both of you. Individuals sit down to develop feelings and facilitate communication.
2. Learn to show yourself
This is similar to online chatting and the interactive process of dating and chatting , we also need to use chat to show ourselves more comprehensively, so as to further attract girls and make girls more interested in you.
For example, if you and a girl are going to go see a movie on an appointment, you can talk to the girl about the movie on the way to show it off
Male: I watched the movie "Flying Life" during the Chinese New Year, it was pretty good It’s funny, have you seen it?
Female: I haven’t seen it, or I have.
Male: Well, although this movie is quite funny, I felt it when I watched it Shen Teng's persistence in dreaming reminds me of my dream in college.
Girls will be curious and ask: What is your dream?
Guy: I hope to have a small nest of my own in this city. I still remember that I was so special when I first came to this city. It’s not easy, but now I have persevered and got to know you. Haha, perseverance is right.
Through this kind of chat and interaction display, your warm, motivated and positive image of a man will slowly become in the minds of girls.If you do this, girls will be more attracted to you and understand you more comprehensively. Next, the girl may also tell some stories of her own struggles, allowing you to communicate in depth.
3. Details that need attention
In fact, the focus of the first date after the relationship is confirmed should be On establishing the impression of “fit”. Because a girl agrees to meet you on the first date, it means that the girl is not satisfied with just chatting, but also wants to try dating you. And if you are very anxious and want to upgrade the ambiguous relationship immediately on the first date, many girls They will think that you are just playing for fun and that you are an unreliable boy. Gradually, girls will stay away from you and refuse your future invitations.
In fact, girls also try their best to show their good side to boys during the dating process, because they are afraid that their image in front of boys will not be good and their points will be reduced!
So He said, brothers, don’t worry about embarrassment and nervousness. In fact, they are all just as nervous. You just need to have a good attitude, show your good side bit by bit, let girls understand you more comprehensively, and then learn to cultivate a suitable feeling for you to get along. The last one is that as long as you don’t make mistakes during the date, you are a good person. date, because your meeting must be based on a certain interest. If you don't make a mistake, your interest will not weaken too much.
