Chasing girls is not achieved by just chatting. No matter how good you chat with a girl, you need to upgrade the relationship through dating in the end before you can confirm the relationship. So what should you do if you chat with a girl for a long time but can't make a date?
1. Improve emotional purchasing
The real reason why the invitation fails is that girls are interested in you The emotional purchasing level is not high enough. When you really think about going to a date, all kinds of obstacles come up, including logistics, makeup, dating experience, and time costs. Once a girl’s emotional purchase is insufficient to resolve these obstacles, the invitation will fail. Just like eating hot pot at 12 o'clock in the evening, if you think it is too troublesome and unnecessary, you will give up directly.
2. Vague invitation
The smoothest way to invite is that you just happen to talk about a certain topic, and the girl’s mood is at a high point at this time, so you can make a vague invitation. . For example, if you just talked about hot pot, and a girl loves hot pot very much, you can just say, "I know a hot pot restaurant, the taste is very authentic, we can try it together".
If the girl readily agrees, you can start to further confirm the logistics information. If a girl directly refuses, or directly prevaricates you and says, "Let's talk about it later," it basically means that the girl is not very interested in you and needs to further improve the girl's emotional purchasing.
3. Confirm logistics information
In order to increase the success rate of the invitation as much as possible, you need to confirm the girl Logistics information to develop a more suitable invitation time and location.
The so-called logistics information refers to the geographical location of both parties, the girl’s work and rest time, whether there is access control, when to take vacation, etc.
With this information, we can develop a more reasonable invitation plan, such as where is more suitable to meet, what time is more suitable, whether we can have late night snacks, general arrangements for date items, etc.
4. Finalize the specific invitation
Once you have the logistics information, you can further try to finalize the specific invitation. For example, let’s go for a walk together tomorrow and take you to a barbecue. If the girl is willing, we can further finalize it; if the girl's logistics does not allow it, then we can try to change a more suitable time. For example, if you are not free tomorrow, what are your plans for the weekend? If a girl always has a reason why she can't keep a date, then stop trying. Return to the original step and continue to improve emotional purchasing.
5. Confirm before leaving for an appointment
At this moment, if a girl agrees to your invitation, it is just a short-term promise. Checks need to be further confirmed before leaving. Therefore, after a girl agrees to an invitation, Brother Thief will usually exchange phone numbers with the girl to test the girl’s interest.. If the other party doesn't even give you a call, then there's basically no hope.
After the phone exchange is completed, keep in touch before the actual invitation to prevent other divorce situations and empty happiness. Finally, before leaving for the date, you should confirm the girl’s date intention for the last time. Many times, girls break up at this juncture. For example, you can send a WeChat message saying, I am leaving, have you gone out yet?
