There is no need to say more about the importance of the first date with a girl! What many boys struggle with most is where to go on a first date with a girl. After all, he doesn’t know whether girls will like his favorite date place, and he doesn’t know which date locations can increase a girl’s favorability towards him. Here’s an analysis of dating girls. Where is the best place to go on a first date?
1. Choosing a first date location
It is best to choose a familiar place for a first date with a girl, or a place that has been visited before, or at least has been checked online. Get a general idea of ??what's here. If you are a bit of a wanderlust, it is recommended to go there in advance to find out. Another purpose of getting familiar with the date venue is to arrange transitions. The role of transitions is quite obvious for dating. Every time you transition, you will increase the familiarity and tacit understanding between the two parties.
2. Date transition arrangements
As mentioned above, try to have at least one first date Transition, which requires multiple projects, such as eating first, then taking a walk (don’t walk too far, it’s tiring, and the other party should avoid walking if they are wearing high heels), and then switch to some lightly interactive projects, such as VR, grabbing Dolls, game arcades and other items.
In addition, you can choose a combination of low energy and high energy for dating places. For example, in some quiet environments, both parties need to chat. If you find that the chat is average, go to a higher energy place. A place of energy. This often avoids date monotony and awkwardness.
3. What to do if the date is boring
There will definitely be some silent moments on the first date. , or both parties focus on their mobile phone screens, etc. You can prepare some interesting short videos, pictures, etc. in advance for both parties to watch together to increase interaction. Try to choose these videos that the other party is unlikely to see (be careful not to use low-style videos like Kuaishou videos, the value is too low!). Things that can be seen on the Internet are not necessary. Chat will be discussed in detail in the next article.
4. First date taboos
Next, let’s talk about:
1. Don’t have conflicts of values/overly rational communication
Especially some highly educated straight men who like to chat with others about advanced academic issues? This is a big problem. Feelings must be emotional.
Another one is: don’t have a conflict of values. For example, if the other person says, “My friend bought me a facial mask in Yokohama, the capital of Japan,” don’t correct him and tell him that the capital of Japan is Tokyo. This is not necessary, just smile and let it go.
The general principle is: get along harmoniously, and then everyone can relax and have some fun.Actions (mood swings) that inspire a smile in the other person.
2. Avoid talking about the love history of both parties, sexual topics, personal health and other issues
If these topics are unnecessary, try to avoid them on the first date, because you don’t know whether they will Encountering a minefield. If you really want to get the other person's values ??through similar topics, you can add "My friend's ex..."
Even so, it is not appropriate to talk too much. You must stop it and turn to some relaxed and pleasant topics. .
3. Dressing too boldly
This is easy to understand. You have not figured out the other party’s acceptance level. Don't dress too boldly. This ordinary straight man cannot do such a thing. (In most cases, you wear low-level clothes, not too bold hahaha)
4. Pay attention to your body odor, perfume smell, body hair, etc.
Boys often have some The inexplicable smell may not be felt by you or your gay friends around you. You just need to remember to take a shower, wash your hair, and shave your beard on your first date (especially pay attention to trimming your nose hair, as it is often easy to make mistakes here) before going out.
In addition, the scent of perfume should not be too strong (just spray it one meter in front of you, and then walk gently over). When meeting some more conservative dates, you do not have to spray perfume. This is not necessary. options.
5. Don’t talk about hot search questions that are too tacky/don’t talk about politics and other issues
Some hot search questions have been discussed to a fault, and it will look very low if you mention them again. In addition, girls are usually not interested in national affairs, so don’t talk about them. If you must talk, you can talk about specific problems your friends encountered because of hot searches, problems that happened around you, and then describe what they encountered. (This is what girls like to gossip about)
