Many boys are actually quite shy when they first start chasing girls. They want to increase girls’ favorability towards them, but they don’t know how to chat with girls. As a result, their plans to chase girls are repeatedly shelved, and girls are Others have teased her away and haven't thought of any good way yet. Below, the editor will share with you how to chat to increase your favorability when you first start chasing a girl?
1. Understand the characteristics of girls
When boys first start chasing girls, in addition to improving their self-image, they also need to understand the girl’s personality, emotional traits, interests and hobbies, etc. . Because every girl has different characteristics, of course she has to adopt different strategies when dealing with them, and at the same time, she has to find common topics.
For example, if a girl likes mountain climbing and traveling on weekends, and these activities are best done together, then you can make some mountain climbing travel strategies in advance, and then invite the girl to join you. , or ask girls what areas still need improvement. Girls are happy to share their interests with you, and they may agree to go with you. Of course, your performance is required in this process.
2. Prepare chat topics
Many times it is easy to start chatting with girls, but keep it up. It is more difficult to talk about topics. Below I will share with you 5 types of topics for chatting with girls, including 5 stages from easy to difficult in contacting girls. Boys can choose topics from them according to which stage you and girls have developed.
1. Basic information exchange
2. Express feelings towards the other party
3. Interesting third-party topics
4. Random Topics
5. Flirting and ambiguity
These five types of topics for chatting with girls cover almost all the topics we usually chat with girls, and also represent the five stages of the relationship with girls. , you can choose topics by comparing them.
3. Adjust your chat mentality
The reason why many boys don’t know how to chat with girls is actually a Mentality issues, fear of saying the wrong thing, fear of failure in chasing girls. In fact, anything you do must be done with a proper mentality. Only with the right mentality can you achieve the best results. The same goes for chasing girls and chatting with girls. If you can't change your mentality when talking to girls, you will never make progress.
Also, some boys become anxious when a girl fails to reply in time, thinking that the girl is not interested in him, and their mentality collapses. Then send messages to the girl like crazy, but the more you do this, the more the girl will hate you. In fact, the girl might just be busy and didn't see the message. If boys always bringIf you chat with a girl with a worried attitude, you will never catch her.
In fact, there are no specific skills on how to chat with girls. As long as you can chat comfortably with girls, you can slowly get into the girls' lives. Here, she will slowly develop a crush on you. Of course, if you and a girl have different views, then your chat may not be very pleasant. This is something you can't change no matter how much you do.
