When chatting with girls, people who always end up chatting to death within a few words can basically be divided into the following six personalities:
1. Tangled type
The answer to this kind of question is confusing. If a girl answers you truthfully, but the content of the answer is not very good, if she doesn't reply, she is afraid that you will think too much and get too entangled, and she will choose not to reply, so the chat will die.
Example: Asking a girl: "What are you doing?"
Asking people "what are you doing" regardless of occasion and time is the most typical tangled topic.
For example, if a girl is at work and you ask her what she is doing, the answer you want from a girl is basically: "at work." But did you know that in general chats, as long as one party says that she is at work, the other party will feel that she should not disturb the other party, or think that she is rejecting him tactfully, so 90% of people will see the other party say "at work" and just Won't reply to messages again.
Many girls have experienced this kind of thing, so how do you want her to answer this question? To be honest, it means that there is a high probability that you will not talk to her anymore. If she really wants to Doesn't chatting with you mean forcing her to lie to you? As for girls who don't want to chat with you, they won't even bother to answer such boring questions.
Asking "What are you doing?" and not chatting to death can only mean that you are that girl's true love.
2. Vulgar type
Nonsensical, dirty jokes, making up jingles, and making fun of other people's relationships are all included in this category. This kind of topic treats vulgarity as funny, and you can't even tell the difference between sexual harassment and joking.
Example: Send a message to a girl in the middle of the night: "Get up and pee!"
Boys who like vulgar topics often can't tell what is humorous and what is vulgar, and they are conscious Wouldn't it make people feel uncomfortable if they didn't do it themselves? I just thought this sentence was funny, so I added it to my topic library.
Just like this sentence, calling a girl boo boo. Some people think that saying this can reflect the "close and intimate" relationship with her. However, if you are not a girl who has been "frank and honest" with you, at this time, you will feel This sentence will definitely come up: "Damn, you are a gangster."
3. Investigation type
It is also what we often call "household check" type chat. Asking about this and that, like the FBI, they want to dig into every corner of the girl's family and peel off the skin of her body, making people feel violated.
I believe there is no need to list additional examples like this. "How old are you?" "What's your real name?" "How many people are in your family?" etc. all fall into this category.
4. Personal injury
Some people like to poke holes in people’s wounds and expose their shortcomings when they speak. No one wants to be with this kind of personLet’s keep talking?
Example: Say to a fat girl, “What did you eat to be like this?”
The closer the girl’s pain points are to what you said, the easier it will be. get hurt. For example, if she is really fat, she must be very concerned about others saying she is fat. If you are asked such embarrassing questions in person, you will get angry directly at worst, or you will be classified as persona non grata at worst.
Such hurtful topics can easily offend girls. What’s even more frightening is that after the other party gets angry, some people still say innocently: “I was just joking, what are you doing?” So serious.”
Brother, you have caused harm to others and you still treat it as a joke, as if other people’s pain is an understatement to you. You are doing double harm to others. Damage!
5. Tasteless type
It makes people feel boring, boring and unnutritious, keep talking. You are also wasting time and saliva on topics such as what have you eaten? Good morning. Good evening. They all fall into this category. No one has the energy to talk to you about these things.
6. Brain-dead type
Forced to be humorous, forced to chat, forced to be profound, make some inappropriate jokes. From time to time, he will give a reply that does not follow the words, or even deliberately argue. and other embarrassing complexes.
Example:
A girl said that her limbs were weak, and the boy asked what was wrong. The girl said that she had a cold, and then the boy responded with a sentence: "I thought I was hit by Shixiang Ruanjin Powder "
Girl: "My best friend just gave birth to a baby. It's so cute. I really want to have one." Boy: "You want to have a baby? Do you have my permission?"
