When chatting with girls, there is a cold spot, usually because the topic is not fully prepared and you don’t know how to find a topic, so you don’t know what to talk about while chatting. So how do you find topics to talk to girls so that you don’t get cold feet?
Now I will teach you how to chat with unlimited topics.
For example:
You text a girl: "What are you doing?"
The girl replies to you: "My best friend and I are doing it outside. I’m getting a manicure.”
Generally speaking, when faced with such a reply, straight men will just reply blankly: “Oh, then you can do it,” and then end the chat.
But if he were an experienced driver, he would find at least two talking points from the girl’s words:
1. The topic of “best friend”: “Which best friend is it? Do I know you?"
2. "Manicure" topic: "What are you going to do, do you want me to give you some advice?"
No matter which topic is targeted , experienced drivers can make this chat go on smoothly.
Seeing this, some boys may not understand why there are so many topics but they can’t discover them?
In fact, when you are chatting with girls, if You always feel like you don't know where to start, not because she didn't provide a topic, but because you don't have the ability to discover effective topics.
So, how can you have this ability?
The answer is very simple, according to "keywords" "To extend the topic. Here are a few examples to give you a feel:
1.
Male: Hi, have you slept?
Female: No, I am playing games.
Male: Can the great master guide me, a newbie?
Female: Haha, I’m afraid I can’t guide you
2.
p>Male: What is your name?
Female: My name is Mengmeng
Male: No wonder I dream a lot lately.
Female: Haha.
From the above example, we can see that as long as you can grasp the key words in the other party's words, then you can continue the topic.
But sometimes, the keywords are not directly brought out in the girl’s words. At this time, we need to expand our thinking, get the keywords through association, and then continue chatting with her.
For example:
3.
Male: Where are you from?< /p>
Female: Northeastern (yesReminiscent of "Kuaishou")
Male: Do you play Kuaishou?
Female: Haha, how do you know?
Male:...
p>4.
Male: How old are you?
Female: 28 (it can be deduced that the girl is a sheep)
Male: Wow , then you are a sheep, right? It is said that I am particularly compatible with people who were born in the year of sheep
Female: Really? What kind of person are you?
Male:....
p>This is the unlimited topic chat method, which allows you to chat with the girl you like and have endless topics. You are no longer afraid of being left alone without a topic. It can also change the girl's boring "um" and "oh" replies. Active communication with full interest.
As long as you can master this and practice more practical training with girls, your chatting skills will surely improve steadily over time.
Another thing to note is, don’t be too nervous when chatting with a girl. It’s best to treat her as your old friend. When you relax, you will naturally perform twice the result with half the effort!
