Perhaps you have added a woman through social networking software. You chatted very well and the atmosphere of ambiguous chatting was established. At this time, if you want to continue to contact her, you may have to make an appointment to meet. But no matter how you invite her, the woman refuses to go on a date. What is going on? What is the idea of ??a woman who only chats but never meets?
1. Have a boyfriend or be married
Nowadays, some women obviously have a boyfriend or even are married and have a family, but they are still looking for men to chat with, or she and When a partner gets angry after a quarrel, he goes out to chat with other men to see if there is anyone better and to find a spare tire. There are also some who are married and lonely, and they also come out to find someone to chat with to relieve their emptiness, loneliness, and coldness. Although such a woman can chat with a man, it is not that easy to ask her out. After all, she still has many worries and is not ready to really start with you.
2. Not in a hurry to be single
Some women say they want to find a man to be single, but But in fact, she is not in a hurry at all. Some women still have several alternatives around them and are still struggling; some women are busy doing other things and don't actually want to be single in a hurry; some women are concerned about their appearance. It's so tall that most men can't even catch her eye. These women can talk to you, but dating is not that easy.
3. Procrastination patients
In fact, when a woman goes out, she will have a lot of things to think about. Maybe she feels that her hair style is not good today, so she should not see her yet, or maybe she will have some problems tomorrow. It was a small favor, but it still disappeared, and I wasn’t ready the day after tomorrow, maybe a few days later... In this way, I always couldn’t make an appointment with a woman, and over time, it gave people the impression that women only chatted but never met.
4. Not confident
In fact, women need a lot of self-confidence to prepare to meet men, because now most people post photos with their own beauty, and women are also afraid of being with him. After meeting a man, letting him discover that he is a photo will make him disgusted. She is afraid that after meeting you, you will be dissatisfied with her appearance and dislike her. If this is the outcome, it would be better not to meet each other first, so that everyone can chat happily.
5. Women are not satisfied with you
It may be that during the chat, the woman discovers something about you The conditions are not very in line with her requirements. It's okay to chat and be her friend, but not enough to be her boyfriend. Then don't meet her for now, so as not to give you unrealistic hopes.
6. Passing time out of boredom
Some women chat with men not because they want to be single, but because they are stressed and can’t find anyone to chat with. It just so happens that you can chat with them, then Just talk more and pass the time when you are bored.
7. Routines
Some women know how to chase men very wellThis is a human trick: she will just chat with you without meeting you, and the chat will be rather ambiguous, increasing your internal investment in her, making you anxious, and making you fall in love with her, and then you will definitely make a date to meet her. You will have high expectations for her.
If you meet a woman who you only chat with but never meet, first judge how she treats you based on your usual chats. An idea, and then decide whether to continue chatting with her.
