Why do girls who we had a good conversation suddenly ignore?
Because someone else took advantage of her. An ideal relationship is like an idol drama, one-on-one, one chasing and one coping. In fact, many-to-many, you are flirting with multiple girls, and the other person is also flirted with by multiple people.
I often play a game with my beautiful female friends: swap mobile phones. If you watch it, you will find that it is common for girls with looks above 6 points to chat with three or four boys at the same time when they do not have a fixed boyfriend, let alone those Neptunes.
There are many girls in my circle of friends who like to show off their figures. Often late at night, I feel that watching movies in my circle of friends is just around the corner.
They will take every opportunity to send out some borderline things. Some time ago, high street queens were popular, twisting their waists and slapping their legs like crazy. This time, Christmas short skirts are popular, and they expose their breasts in various ways. Many friends who went to Sanya during the New Year either wore swimsuits at the beach or in the hotel. In short, they did not miss every opportunity to show off their figures.
I used to be very surprised when these people posted photos to Moments. Don’t they want to fall in love and find a good partner? Is a man married? Don’t you know that if a man is in a formal relationship, he will be disgusted by a girl who shows a lot of things?
Until one day I saw a piece of news, to the effect that a female anchor was Ten of her eldest brothers transferred money to her, but she was caught for fraud because she was married but told these people that she was single. One upvoting comment was: What if she is not married? Is it legal income?
It is indeed legal income.
In an instant, I understood why beautiful girls are not willing to get married or even fall in love now. Because getting married and falling in love means having responsibilities, being morally single-minded, and basically plummeting financially.
So they send fringe photos and videos unscrupulously, because they have no intention of falling in love at all, as long as their elder brother sees these transfer transactions.
If a girl has been advertised as single to the outside world for a long time, but she is beautiful and has an exciting life, such a girl is not suitable for falling in love, she does not want to fall in love, and she does not need to fall in love.
Feel sad for this era.
Boys, how to tell whether your girlfriend is reliable?
Here are seven principles that you can follow. What we call "reliable girlfriends" refers to: girlfriends with whom you can have a long-term relationship with the purpose of getting married, or someone you can get married to.
1. Addictive hobbies.
Addicted to some harmful substance, tobacco, alcohol. It shows that the will is not strong enough, weak, easy to be tempted, and there is a risk of instability.
2. Vanity beyond one’s own abilities.
It’s not that you can’t have high consumption, but consumption must be based on your own abilities. If you have a monthly salary of 5,000, but are covered by big names, have an unstable job, but are always concerned about food and clothing, it shows that you are vain and indolent, which is not conducive to accumulating wealth and raising future generations.
3. Use outrageous behavior to satisfy vanity.
For example, disco dancing, tattoos, and views or behaviors that go beyond the traditional. A distinction should be made here. If it is a true hobby, of course it supports being deviant and being brave in innovation.
But more people use these extraordinary behaviors to satisfy their vanity. For example, disco tattoos can be completed in a short time using materials, while electronic music and hand-painted art require long-term practice. There is an essential difference between the two.
4. Educational level.
Our country’s education system is essentially a screening of intelligence, anti-interference ability, willpower, and even family outlook.
5. Family background.
Whether the relationship with parents is harmonious, whether the relationship between parents is harmonious, and what are the views of the family of origin.
6. Circle of friends.
Look at girls and look at best friends. If your best friend is vain, idle, messy about the relationship between men and women, and has an improper career, then I am about the same.
7. Professional circle.
Stay away from industries that take advantage of gender, or occupations that take advantage of the relationship between men and women, or jobs that use emotions in exchange for material things, such as nightclub workers and show anchors.
The above is personal experience, of course it is not 100% applicable, but if all seven are met, or most of them are Satisfied, I reminded my brothers to be careful.
No one is perfect, and no girl is perfect. Perfect girls only exist in idol dramas or short videos.
