Girls are complex creatures. When chatting with them, you must first understand the meaning of their words. Otherwise, it is easy to cause misunderstandings and even make the other party angry. So what does it mean when a girl calls you stupid in a chat, and how should you reply?
1. Say you are too straight
If you are a boy with no love experience, it is easier to fall into a dilemma, that is, not knowing whether a girl likes you. Sometimes, when you see a girl looking at you twice, you think she likes you, but this is actually a wrong interpretation.
When you like a girl very much, it is easy to amplify the girl's signal. In other words, if a girl does the little things, you will feel that she is interested in you. For example, a girl says something to you, or asks you to help, and you immediately start thinking: Does she like me?
In fact, these are all your own fantasies, and the reason is that you don’t know how to identify the correct meaning. signal.
There is another situation, that is, a girl actually likes you, but you can't understand it, and instead miss the opportunity the girl gives you. For example, if a girl tells you, "I'm so bored at home," but you reply, "I'm playing games, let's play together," or "I'm watching a TV show, you should also find a TV show to watch." These are all incomprehensible ways of replying. In fact, when a girl tells you that she is bored at home, she actually wants you to take her out to play. At this time, you need to use the correct method to invite.
If you don’t understand some of the “signals” of girls, they may pretend they like you even though they clearly don’t like you. She obviously likes you, but you can't find out and don't know the correct way to reply, then the girl will be disappointed in you and think you are stupid.
2. Say you have low emotional intelligence
Many boys pursue girls in a very direct and very direct way. of embarrassment. For example, confess your love to a girl directly and express your love for her. This is a very childish way of chasing girls, mostly due to misleading plots in TV series.
In reality, you can’t chase girls by confessing your feelings, let alone by asking girls for their welfare.
Originally, you were in an ambiguous atmosphere, and the girl also enjoyed this atmosphere very much. Her heart would beat inexplicably when she thought of you, wondering if you liked her.
As a result, you suddenly confessed your love, which was very silly and embarrassing. The girl instantly enters logical thinking and begins to feel embarrassed and stressed. The ambiguous atmosphere is gone and her expectations for you are gone.
If you can only express your love to girls and don’t know the correct way to chase girls, then you need to study hard. Because girls will think that your confession is a sign of low emotional intelligence, and they will also think that you are stupid.
3. Say you are too uncomfortable
Many boys are very reserved and awkward when dating girls. They are always restrained. This will give the girl a sense of you. You feel very unconfident and uncomfortable.
Because a man’s charm comes from his dominance, backbone, and strong heart.
When you feel uncomfortable, it is precisely when you lack a sense of certainty.
You want to talk about this topic, but you are afraid that it will not be good. If you want to tell this joke, but you are afraid that it won’t be funny to girls, you will become very reserved and awkward.
It’s like driving a car. Sometimes, you step on the accelerator and step on the brake at the same time. For example, you want to hold hands with a girl, but you are afraid of being disliked, so you always restrain yourself. Even if you finally hold the girl's hand, it is only half-hearted. If you are weak and very timid, you will appear clumsy, and girls will think you are stupid.
In the eyes of girls, they are the most clumsy. The ones you look down on are cowardly boys, because it’s okay if you do something wrong. If you hold hands with a girl, you can let go.
But if you start to judge yourself before taking action, you can change it. Limit, girls will just think you are too timid and really boring.
Some people think that the girl I like is very serious, and she also said that I should be more serious. Of course I have to be more honest.
In fact, a girl has no idea whether your behavior is "serious" or not. She will only judge whether a man is attractive or not, and she will accept whatever he does because she is very attractive. Like joking, or holding hands and other physical contact actions.
But if you don't show your charm, then girls will use "be serious" to restrain you? Do you understand? "Serious" is. Girls use it to persuade unattractive men, so what you should think about is not how to cater to girls' so-called "honesty" requirements, but how to show the charm of men.
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