Boys who like a girl are generally very straightforward and will even express their feelings directly in the chat, but girls are different. They only give indirect hints. So how can you tell whether a girl likes you through chatting?
1. Is the chat language ambiguous?
Ambiguity is essential in a relationship catalyst. Therefore, if a girl doesn't shy away from being flirty with you during a chat, she definitely likes you. So what does ambiguity look like in chat?
Without further ado, let’s take an example:
Normal conversations between friends usually look like this:
Male: "Are you free this weekend? Let's have dinner together?"
Female: "Sure, there's a new movie this weekend that I really want to watch. Why don't you treat me to dinner?" I’ll invite you to watch a movie.”
Male: “What kind of boys do girls like?”
Female: “Oh, rich and handsome.”
p>But if I like you, your chat may become like this:
Male: "Are you free this weekend? Let's have a meal together?"
Female: "Okay, there's a new movie coming out this weekend, and I just want you to watch it with me."
Male: "What kind of boys do girls like?"
Girl: "What are you doing? There is a girl you like? Who is it?"
Girl: "I think you are pretty good like this. You are good-looking and have a good personality. Most girls should Everyone will like it.”
2. Her attitude when talking about emotional issues
Talk more normally. There is no feeling about the seventy-seven or eighty-eight things, but once it involves emotional issues, things become interesting.
For example, when you talk about your ex, has her attitude changed significantly, has she become depressed? Is she eager to change the subject as she listens?
Why don’t you want to hear it? Why are you so anxious to change the topic? Because she is jealous and she likes you, so she feels uncomfortable listening to you recall past events with other girls.
For example, she will greet your ex, ex-ex, and ex-ex politely. . . I can't wait to get to the bottom of it one by one.
Then ask: Which one is your most unforgettable? Why? What attracted you to her? Do you still like such a girl now?
If asked this, boys We should be alert, the other party is obviously running for your girlfriend's seat. What does this mean if I don’t like you?
3. Take the initiativeTalking about mate selection criteria
It is a bit ambiguous for a girl to take the initiative to talk about emotional topics with boys. If she also takes the initiative to reveal her mate selection criteria to you, or asks about your mate selection criteria, then boys can take advantage of it. , you might as well see if her mate selection standards are somewhat close to your own (you know).
For example:
“Hey, you are single now, what are your criteria for choosing a spouse?”
“What kind of person do you want to find? Girlfriend? Tell me, maybe I can help you keep an eye on her.”
(But I haven’t seen her actually introduce it to you. This kind of asking without taking action is just trying to trick you.)
"My requirements are not high. I just want to find someone who knows everything about me and can have a good conversation with me. I just need to be about the same height, weight and weight as you."
4. Do you pay attention to your updates?
Under the thinking habits of girls, they are generally used to expressing their feelings, so they regard you as a friend and will often come to complain to you. Talk about this, talk about that, talk about it, and basically won't take the initiative to bring up more topics.
Even among many friends, they talk about things when they have something to do, but they don’t keep in touch when nothing happens.
But if there is a girl who often pays attention to your updates and always rushes out to comfort you when you are frustrated, it means that her feelings for you are higher than that of a friend.
So, think about it carefully. Is there a girl like this in your friend list who often likes and comments on your circle of friends. She will come to express condolences as soon as possible if you have any problems. If you like her too, don't make her wait any longer.
