If you want to quickly shorten the distance between the two parties when chatting with a girl you like, you need to learn to insert a sense of imagery into the chat, so that the chat can be more immersive and the atmosphere more relaxed. So what should you do specifically?
1. Arouse empathy
Let’s look at two sets of dialogue cases:
p>Group 1:
Male: I went to a restaurant today, and their fried shrimp with cheese was particularly delicious.
Female: Really, I like cheese very much. What are its specialties?
Male: Emmm~ I can’t describe it, anyway, it tastes good. I can take you to try it next time.
Female: Yeah, okay.
The second group:
Man: I ate at a restaurant today, and it was so delicious, especially the cheese fried shrimp, a whole fried shrimp that was crispy and crispy. , wrapped in a layer of golden cheese that is full of milky flavor, and it tastes delicious and crispy when you take a bite.
Girl: OMG~~I love cheese so much~My mouth is watering just listening to what you said.
Male: You want to eat, come, I will feed you, open your mouth, ah~
Female: Hahahaha, so annoying.
Male: Haha, I’ll take you to eat next time.
Female: Wow.
What do you think after watching these two sets of conversations?
The first group is obviously very bland, and I can’t feel how delicious it is even if you say it is delicious. So it is difficult to arouse girls' interest.
As for the second group, it was very lively and natural, and the atmosphere was obviously more cheerful. After listening to the boys’ description, the girls were already eager to eat this dish.
Therefore, embedding a sense of imagery in the conversation can make the other party feel the emotions of your chat more truly, and make it easier for girls to empathize.
2. Let girls generate expectations
Looking at the above dialogue case, we can analyze it:
Listening to the boy’s description, we seem to be able to imagine it It looks like golden and crispy fried shrimp and brushed cheese, and it just suits the girl's taste. She will definitely want to eat it right away.
Although boys are jokingly feeding girls from afar, this creates an ambiguous atmosphere. Have you ever felt that the air is filled with pink bubbles?
If she likes you, the promise of "taking you to eat next time" will immediately increase the girl's expectations for this matter, and she will even look forward to you feeding her at the dinner table.
So, this paintingThe shaping of appearance will have a great impact on girls' expectations.
How to describe the picture well? Try to give as many details as possible, especially what girls pay attention to.
For example, when talking about food, you can start from the color, aroma, taste, and texture; when talking about movies, you can start from the actors, pictures, textures, and perceptions...
But I also want to remind all boys that the content of the conversation at this time must be something that both parties have talked about and are interested in. Otherwise, the person you describe to the other party is not cold at all, and it will be a waste of effort.
Just like she obviously doesn’t like eating shrimps, but if you insist on telling her how delicious the shrimps are, how tender the meat is, and how elastic it is in the mouth, just pull it off quickly, it will have no effect at all.
3. Make girls impressed by you
To attract girls’ attention, boys must first Establish your own attractiveness, today I’m talking about this, let me tell you a little tip: during the chat, when introducing your skills, you can add a little picture description. For example:
Male: What are you busy with?
Female: Just finished eating. What about you?
Male: I just finished dancing and am very tired.
Female: Wow, can you dance?
Male: Yes, I have learned hip-hop for a few years, but I have gained weight recently. When I dance, just take it as a Lost weight.
Female: You are so good, please teach me. Street dancing is so cool.
Male: No problem. I am the leader of square dancing in our community. Many children in our community have learned street dancing from me. Have you ever seen the dance "Mack" performed by the kid? Daddy? They have all learned it. Next time I take you to square dance, I will teach you personally.
Female: OK OK, it’s settled.
After saying this, even if a girl has never watched this video before, she will definitely search it out and then imagine how you dance this dance, and...you teach her Dancing scene.
Look, after talking like this, won’t girls remember you by “dancing”?
