Dating is a way to meet new people, but how do you make the other person understand you and develop a good impression of you in a short period of time? Chatting is one of the most important parts of a blind date. The following will introduce you to the skills of dating and chatting.
1. Break the ice
When meeting for the first time, both parties will be a little reserved and nervous. At this time, you can break the ice by asking some simple questions, such as: "What type of movies do you like to watch?" or "What sports do you usually like to do?" etc. This can not only relax the other person, but also learn about the other person's interests and hobbies.
2. Appropriate teasing
During the chat process, teasing the other party appropriately can increase the atmosphere, but be careful not to go overboard. For example, "Why are you so slow? I can't wait any longer" or "You are so interesting. I think we are a good match." This can not only make the other person feel relaxed and happy, but also show your sense of humor.
3. Talk about common topics
Finding common topics is the key to mutual understanding. You can start from work, study, hobbies, etc., and find topics that both parties are interested in for in-depth discussion. For example, "What do you think are the fun places in this city?" or "What good books have you read recently?" etc.
4. Express yourself appropriately
During the chat process, expressing your thoughts and feelings appropriately can allow the other party to better understand themselves. But be careful not to be too self-centered and don't brag too much about yourself. For example, "I think this movie is great because it resonates with people" or "I usually like to do some exercise to stay healthy."
5. Pay attention to details
During the chat process, paying attention to details can make the other party feel cared for and respected. For example, pay attention to the other person's speech, behavior, clothing, etc. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your words and deeds to avoid leaving a bad impression on the other party.
When chatting on a blind date, you should use sincerity, friendliness and humor as the principles, find common topics and express yourself appropriately, while paying attention to details and courtesy. Only this will make the chat more enjoyable and potentially generate opportunities for further development.
