I want to chat with the girl I like, but I can’t find a suitable topic, so the chat turns into an awkward chat of questions and answers, which makes the chat atmosphere awkward and makes the girls disgusted. So how do you find a topic when chatting with a girl?
First of all, you must know that you need to find a topic when chatting with a girl. Develop a plan based on the stage you are at, such as:
1. Chat with a girl you just met to find a topic
For a girl you just met, whether it is through a friend’s introduction or the Internet The key points are to quickly break the ice and eliminate the feeling of unfamiliarity. If you want to increase the probability of a girl replying to you and avoid making the conversation awkward, the best way is to chat with the girl and pretend to be familiar with her, pretending that you already know her.
Examples
Boys: The girl’s outlook on life is quite similar to that of a southern girl
Girls: Why do you say that?
Boys: Five outlooks Exquisite, small frame
Girl: I am from Chengdu and you
Example
Boy: Are you 98 years old (maybe you can calculate your age through social software)< /p>
Girls: You know all about it
Boys: I’ve waited too long for Hong Kong to reply to you (pretending to be familiar)
Example
Boys : You will definitely look good with short hair (you can also say the other way around)
Girls: Cut it off halfway through
Boys: It seems like the other guys didn’t wait until you had long hair. Waist (pretend to be familiar)
2. Chat with girls who have not established attraction to find topics
With girls The purpose of chatting is to build attraction and make girls like us. Never chat just for the sake of chatting. The core of attraction is to show value and show your shining point.
For example: You have just met a girl. She is plain and unpretentious, which does not arouse your interest. At this time, she suddenly sent you a photo of her in a swimsuit, and you instantly became interested. The reason is that the other party has demonstrated value.
Example
Boys: What are you doing when you are handsome and beautiful just after exercise (showing value)
Girls: Watching dramas
Boys: You have to keep an eye out and don’t let the heroine steal your idol
Example
Boys: (Post a photo of delicious food) Being dragged into embarrassment by a friend Drinking wine and eating barbecue, today’s fat loss plan failed again (show value)
Girl: Haha, you usually like sports
Boy: Fortunately, I am not fat either. Just control body fat and gain some muscle (show value)
3. Find topics with girls who have established attraction
Never flirt or talk glibly without establishing attraction. Flirting without attraction is called hooliganism. When attraction is established, you need to heat up the relationship because the girl is already interested in you.
Examples
Boys: You are so handsome and I just woke up and dreamed of you last night
Girls: It’s true and false
Boys : I dreamed that you were dressed in white, like Nie Xiaoqian flying around in my dream
Example
Boy: Get up and give me your hand
Girl: What are you doing?
Boys: Pull around to see if you are beautiful today
