Chatting with strange girls is a headache for many boys, especially when they first come into contact. Issues such as how to open a topic, how to arouse the other party's interest, and how to maintain a good communication atmosphere all require us to think and solve. Let’s share some tips and opening lines for chatting with girls.
1. Say hello
When meeting a girl for the first time, it is best to say hello politely. You can say simple greetings such as "Hello", "Hi", "You are so beautiful". This allows the other party to feel your friendliness and sincerity, and also lays the foundation for subsequent communication.
2. Ask her how she is doing
After saying hello, you can appropriately ask how the other person is doing. , such as: "How are you doing?", "How are you doing today?", etc. This not only expresses your concern for the other person, but also guides the topic in a deeper direction.
3. Use common ground as the entry point
If you already know some information about the other party, such as her hobbies, work, study, etc., you can use this as the entry point to find out common ground. For example: "I also like watching movies. What good movies have you watched recently?", "What major do you major in? I am also very interested in this field." etc. This allows the other person to feel the resonance and interaction between you.
4. Use humor to adjust the atmosphere
During the chat process, the appropriate use of humor can relieve the tense atmosphere and increase the fun of communication. But be careful not to overuse it, otherwise it will look unnatural or rude. For example: "You know what? I almost scared myself to death when I got up this morning because the person in the mirror was so ugly!" etc.
5. Pay attention to her words and expressions
During the chat, pay attention to the other person’s words and expressions. If the other party is nervous or unnatural when speaking, you can provide appropriate encouragement and support; if the other party shows interest or joy, you can extend the topic appropriately or share some relevant experiences and stories.
6. Don’t talk about sensitive topics
When chatting with girls, avoid talking about sensitive topics, such as politics, religion, gender, etc. These topics can easily cause disputes and conflicts, which will affect the quality and effect of communication.
7. Be polite when ending the chat
At the end of the chat, say goodbye to the other party politely and express your gratitude. You can say: "Nice to meet you, let's chat next time!", "Thank you for chatting with me, I wish you a good night!" etc. This allows the other person to feel your respect and care.
The above is a sharing of tips and opening remarks for chatting with girls. Hope it can be helpful to everyone, inIt becomes easier to communicate with strange girls!
