When a girl on a blind date adds WeChat for the first time, the first thing she needs to do is say hello. You can simply greet the other party, such as "Hello, I am XX, we met at a blind date event." This not only shows your identity, but also elicits a response from the other party.
Step 2: Chit-chat
After saying hello, you can have some chit-chat. You can ask about the other person's recent living situation, work status, etc. At the same time, you can also share some recent situations about yourself to let the other party know you better.
Step 3: Common topics
After chatting, you can find some common topics to discuss dialogue. You can choose appropriate topics based on previous communication content or the other person’s interests and hobbies. For example, if the other person likes traveling, you can talk about where they have been recently and what special experiences they have had.
Step 4: In-depth communication
After establishing a certain tacit understanding, you can start to have more in-depth communication. You can talk about more personal topics, such as family background, future plans, etc. But be careful not to be too direct or too presumptuous, and adjust your topic based on the other person's reaction.
When chatting after adding WeChat for the first time, maintain a positive and friendly attitude. Try to avoid sensitive topics such as politics, religion, etc. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your words and expressions, and try to communicate in concise and clear language to make it easier for the other party to understand and respond.
